Tiger Woods press conference video on CBS.

Today Tiger Woods broke the long silence which began with the now famous accident on Thanksgiving.  At 11:01am, Tiger Woods held a small and controlled press conference at the headquarters of the PGA.

The small gathering included Tim Finchem of the PGA, Tiger’s good friend Notah Begay, and right in front of the podium where Tiger spoke, his Mother.

Rather than to give you my comments, I thought it best to just print the statement in it’s entirety.

Enjoy;

“Good Morning, and thank you for joining me.”

“Many of you in this room are my friends.”  “Many of you in this room know me.”  “Many of you have cheered for me, or you worked with me, or you supported me.”  “Now, every one of you as reason to be critical of me.”  “I want to say to each of you, simply and directly…I am deeply sorry for my irresponsible and selfish behaviour I engaged in.”

“I know people want to find out how I could be so selfish, and so foolish.”  “People want to know how I could have done these things to my wife Elin, and to my children.”  “And while I have always tried to be a private person, there are some things I want to say.”

“Elin and I have started the process of discussing the damage caused by my behaviour.”  “As Elin pointed out to me, my real apology to her will not come in the form of words.” “They will come from my behaviour over time.”  “We have a lot to discuss.”  “However…what we say to each other will remain between the two of us.”

“I am also aware of the pain that my behaviour has caused to those of you in this room.”  “I have let you down.” “And I have let down my fans.”  “For many of you…especially my friends, my behaviour has been a personal disappointment.”

“To those of you who work for me, I have let you down personally, and professionally.”  “My behaviour has caused considerable worry to my business partners, to everyone involved in my foundation including my staff, board of directors, sponsors, and most importantly the young students we reach, our work is more important than ever.”

“Thirteen years ago, my Dad and I envisioned helping young people achieve their dreams through education.”  “This work remains unchanged and will continue to grow.”  “From the Learning Center students in Southern California, to the Earl Woods Scholars in Washington DC, millions of kids have changed their lives, and I am dedicated to makin’ sure that continues.”

“But still, I know, I have bitterly disappointed all of you.”  “I have made you question who I am, and how I could have done the things I did.”  “I am embarrassed that I have put you in this position.”

“For all that I have done…I am so sorry.”

“I have a lot to intone for.”  “But there’s one issue I really want to discuss.”

“Some people have speculated that Elin somehow hurt or attacked me Thanksgiving night.”  “It angers me that people would fabricate a story like that.”  “Elin never hit me that night, or any other night!”  “There has never been an episode of domestic violence in our marriage!”  “Elin has shown enormous grace, and poise throughout this ordeal.”  “Elin deserves praise, not blame.”  “The issue involved here, was my repeated irresponsible behaviour.”  “I was unfaithful, I had affairs, I cheated!”  “What I did is not acceptable.”  “And I am the only person to blame.”

“I stopped living by the core values that I was taught to believe in.”  “I knew my actions were wrong, but I convinced myself that normal rules didn’t apply.”  “I never thought about who I was hurting.”  “I thought only about myself.”  “I ran straight through the boundaries that a married couple should live by.”  “I thought that I could get away with whatever I wanted to.”  “I felt that I had worked hard my entire life and deserved to enjoy all the temptations around me.”  “I felt I was entitled.”  “Thanks to money and fame I didn’t have far…I didn’t have to go far to find them.”

“I was wrong, I was foolish.”  “I don’t get to play by different rules.”  “The same boundaries that apply to everyone, apply to me.”  “I brought this shame on myself.”  “I hurt my wife, my kids, my mother, my wife’s family, my friends, my foundation, and kids all around the world who admired me.”

“I’ve had a lot of time to think about what I’ve done.”  “My failures have made me look at myself in a way I never wanted to before.”  “It’s now up to me to make amends.”  “And that starts by never repeating the mistakes I’ve made.”  “It’s up to me to start living a life of integrity.”  “I once heard and I believe it’s true; “It’s not what you achieve in life that matters, it’s what you overcome.”

“Achievements on the golf course are only part of setting an example.”  “Character, and decency are what really count.”

“Parents used to point to me as a role model for their kids.”  “I owe all those families a special apology!”  “I want to say to them, that I am truly sorry.”

“It’s hard to admit, that I need help.”  “But I do.”  “From 45 days from the end of December to early February  I was in “in-patient” therapy receiving guidance for the issues I’m facing.”  “I have a long way to go.”  “But I’ve taken my first steps in the right direction.”

“As I proceed, I understand that people have questions.”  “I understand that the press wants to ask me for the details and the times I was unfaithful.”  I understand people want to know whether Elin and I will remain together.”  “Please know, that as far as I’m concerned, every one of these questions and answers, is a matter between Elin and me.”  “These are issues between a husband, and a wife.”

“Some people have made up things that never happened.”  “They said I used performance enhancing drugs.”  “This is completely, and utterly false!”

“Some have written things about my family.”  “Despite the damage I have done I still believe it is right to shield my family from the public spotlight.”  “They did not do these things.”  “I did.”  “I have always tried to maintain a private space for my wife and children.”  “They have been kept separate from my sponsors, my commercial endorsements.”  “When my children were born we only released photographs so that the paparazzi could not chase them.”  “However, my behaviour doesn’t make it right for the media to follow my two-and-a-half year old daughter to school and report the schools location.!” “They staked out my wife and they persued my mom.!”  “Whatever my wrong doings, for the sake of my family, please leave my wife and kids alone.”

“I recognize I have brought this upon myself.”  “And I know above all, I am the one who needs to change.”  “I owe it to my family to become a better person.”  “I owe it to those closest to me to become a better man.”  “That’s were my focus will be.”  “I have a lot of work to do, and I intent to dedicating myself to doing it.”

“Part of following this path, for me, is Buddhism, which Mother taught me t a young age.”  “People probably don’t realize it but I was raised a Buddist and I actively practised my faith from childhood until I drifted away from it in recent years.”  “Buddhism teaches that a craving for things outside ourselves causes an unhappy and pointless search for security.”  “It teaches me to stop following every impulse and to learn restraint.”  “Obviously, I lost track of what I was taught.”

“As I move forward I will continue to receive help.”  “Cause I’ve learned that’s how people really do change.”  “Starting tomorrow, I will leave for more treatment, and more therapy.”  “I would like to thank my friends at Excenture, and the players in the field this week for understanding why I’m makin’ these remarks today.”

“In therapy I’ve learned the importance of looking at my spiritual life, and keeping in balance with my professional life.”  “I need to regain my balance, and be centred to save the things that are most important to me, my marriage, and my children.”  “That also means relying on others for help.”  “I’ve learned to seek support from my peers in therapy and I hope someday to return that support to others who are seeking help.”

“I do plan to return to golf one day.”  “I just don’t know when that day will be.”  “I don’t rule out that it will be this year.”  “When I do return, I need to make my behaviour more respectful of the game.”

“In recent weeks I have receive many thousands of emails, letters, and phone calls from people expressing good wishes.”

“To everyone who has reached out to me and to my family, thank you.”  “Your encouragement means the world to Elin and me.”
“I want to thank the PGA Tour.”  “Commissoner Finchem, and the players for their patience and understanding while I work on my private life.”  “I look forward to seeing my fellow players on the course.”

“Finally, there are many people in this room, and there are many people at home who believed in me.”   “Today, I want to ask for your help.”  “I ask you to find room in your heart to one day, believe in me again.”

“Thank you.”

Following the statement, Tiger walked over to where his mother was sitting and embraced in an emotional hug.  He then shook hands with Mr. Finchem, gave Notah Begay a hug and left the room.

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